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Secrets can be abused.

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Let’s be completely real with y’all, we’ve always seen in-group bias on the scene.     It’s not new and has always been around; like a lurking cloud raining droplets of shame from the main stream part of society over us - swingers or anyone who deems themselves as part of the many different alternative lifestyles.  And I think me and Paul’s discourse at times can be, somewhat bias to people whom are outside the scene; especially when it comes to people in the main stream part of society wanting to remain purposefully ignorant - because it somehow ‘threatens their way of life’, or it could possibly infatuate their fragile little minds. Of course it can’t and no one’s minds are fragile or little.. well unless your a little (now that is a conversation for a whole other time)   We do voice this, at times - very openly and colourfully, but only when it comes to people who are refusing to learn basic, foundation level information regarding ENM relationships.  (aka ethical non-monogamy) or wh
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Award time?!

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  Until it actually happens to yourself - you probably wouldn't get it but there really isn't any actual need to win; just by looking at the amazing peeps that are in our category--- we've already won!!!!  But just in case - you've been reading my blood the last 4 years, wondering why on earth there isn't 4 blogs finished yet; and you would like to vote for us.  Then voting goes live tomorrow!!! Vote link is below  https://ukfetishawards.com/2024/uk-swinging-lifestyle-podcast/ And next year - this very blog could be up for a nomination or something even bigger! 
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Escape the purely crazy Vanilla world and Entice yourself into our part of it. (Xtasia)

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                                                               While the world may be feeling like it’s falling into an authoritarianism dystopia - where peaceful protest and free speech is being labelled as a terrorist acts; in our part of the world - our community is becoming bigger and even stronger every day .                                            Come and have a read & anonymously dive                                             into the world of kink & swinging with me. We attended a new kink night - entice at Xstasia in west Birmingham. And although it was a fair few weeks ago now, I spent quite fair time the day after writing about it all, so it was as fresh as my sober mind could capture it. If you wanted to listen to us discuss it in far less detail than this blog post, the link to the podcast episode is here. Although we do have loads of our usual laid back chatter with loads with loads of possible Segway's but we even managed to kee
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Dynamic tension, can't weight - Part one

    The gym had always been empty upon her arrival. The way it presented to her - as this prefound space, clear - yet spooky, that's what was always best about it. It almost cradled her, like the smell of old sweat bubbled her from clean outside world. And the constant need to be on call, yet the irony of that almost false belief system would make her smile most days.  “How dare you don’t. You know I’m aware of what you’re doing right? !” She assertively exclaimed, as she claimed the set of weights that were, at this point the only thing between them.  'Good, I want you to know what I’m doing. Or it wouldn’t be a way of getting the point across now would it ?” He smiled, letting off a very short lived giggle.  “Well we’re not in school. You know you can just come up to me and tell me. You haven’t got a try to follow me round the entire gym trying to wind me up by getting on any equipment you know I’ve sized up beforehand”. He didn’t reply to her statement, he just allowed his e
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We are literally living through an important part of history - a freedom of speech war

  My friend wrote this on her Facebook page.... (are not my own words) " Imagine the news still trying to belittle the only sensible humans out there. Maybe pay people enough to eat. Lower the extortionate rent prices. Lower taxes. DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR STARVING PEOPLE. I HOPE THE WHOLE COUNTRY STRIKES AND GOES TO A STANDSTILL. Who owns the majority percentage of the moderna vaccine...our prime minister. This IS a dystopia world and we are all fucked. That is all. Your governments basically robbing you, mentally assaulting you and making your life hard daily people. ** also as a side note quit trying to make the schools pay this. The government should be wiping their own arse at this point. I don't  think politicians should be allowed all these assets when people are starving and schools are fitting the bill. You know that means LESS FACILITIES AND RESOURCES FOR OUR CHILDREN. Makes me angry. It really isn't about to get any better buddies "
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Wife of a bi man, my true liberation.

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I've no doubt mentioned it to most probably everyone I've ever come across on the scene .You know the people that we actually get to know - and not just shag... Although let's be honest, with my constant verbal diarrhoea, there's probably a high chance I've already told you during a shag, or an orgy.. (Which if that's the case, you may want to skip past this post; wasting one's time reading something you already know is never a good thing but then again. I've always been able to better explain myself writing, as verbally was always quite difficult. (you can blame the dyspraxia and social stigma for that)  Hehehehe....  But when I first started to watch porn - and use it to actually properly wank and not just laugh mindlessly at it, the whole thing was such a taboo thing at the time, that I had to constantly hide it. The shame would consume me at times, even though I knew deep, deep down - that there was possibly nothing to be ashamed about! I still felt
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Dv8 - - the blondie and the bean.

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Wasn't expecting a fantasy like that to pop into my head. Had a really awesome night at Dv8 and for a couple of hours afterwards and it went along the lines of  something like this... _____________________________________________ As I'm totally writing this from my memory, I'm bais in the sense it's completely from my own perspective. Although I do enjoy to perve around at everyone. This account of events consist entirely of pockets of time which I really enjoyed and are awesome moments which I can fully remember later on and usually in an impressive HD manner. {The only time you should ever go into the past, is to enjoy and perve other past experiences. Hehe} If I'm honest the majority of the night was pretty damn awesome so this might be a long account of events. __________________________________________ Me and Paul walked into the club feeling like the absolute sex gods as we are….. (well in our minds anyway hehe)  Basically this girl turned me down i
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