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Escape the purely crazy Vanilla world and Entice yourself into our part of it. (Xtasia)

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                                                               While the world may be feeling like it’s falling into an authoritarianism dystopia - where peaceful protest and free speech is being labelled as a terrorist acts; in our part of the world - our community is becoming bigger and even stronger every day .                                            Come and have a read & anonymously dive                                             into the world of kink & swinging with me. We attended a new kink night - entice at Xstasia in west Birmingham. And although it was a fair few weeks ago now, I spent quite fair time the day after writing about it all, so it was as fresh as my sober mind could capture it. If you wanted to listen to us discuss it in far less detail than this blog post, the link to the podcast episode is here. Although we do have loads of our usual laid back chatter with loads with loads of possible Segway's but we even managed to kee

Dynamic tension, can't weight - Part one

    The gym had always been empty upon her arrival. The way it presented to her - as this prefound space, clear - yet spooky, that's what was always best about it. It almost cradled her, like the smell of old sweat bubbled her from clean outside world. And the constant need to be on call, yet the irony of that almost false belief system would make her smile most days.  “How dare you don’t. You know I’m aware of what you’re doing right? !” She assertively exclaimed, as she claimed the set of weights that were, at this point the only thing between them.  'Good, I want you to know what I’m doing. Or it wouldn’t be a way of getting the point across now would it ?” He smiled, letting off a very short lived giggle.  “Well we’re not in school. You know you can just come up to me and tell me. You haven’t got a try to follow me round the entire gym trying to wind me up by getting on any equipment you know I’ve sized up beforehand”. He didn’t reply to her statement, he just allowed his e

We are literally living through an important part of history - a freedom of speech war

  My friend wrote this on her Facebook page.... (are not my own words) " Imagine the news still trying to belittle the only sensible humans out there. Maybe pay people enough to eat. Lower the extortionate rent prices. Lower taxes. DO SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR STARVING PEOPLE. I HOPE THE WHOLE COUNTRY STRIKES AND GOES TO A STANDSTILL. Who owns the majority percentage of the moderna vaccine...our prime minister. This IS a dystopia world and we are all fucked. That is all. Your governments basically robbing you, mentally assaulting you and making your life hard daily people. ** also as a side note quit trying to make the schools pay this. The government should be wiping their own arse at this point. I don't  think politicians should be allowed all these assets when people are starving and schools are fitting the bill. You know that means LESS FACILITIES AND RESOURCES FOR OUR CHILDREN. Makes me angry. It really isn't about to get any better buddies "

Wife of a bi man [part one]

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I'm not sure who knows this about me.. I've no doubt mentioned it to most probably everyone I've ever come across on the scene .You know the people that we actually get to know - and not just shag... Although let's be honest, with my constant verbal diarrhoea, there's probably a high chance I've told you during a shag, or an orgie.. Which if that's the case, you may want to skip past this post. Although I've always been able to better explain myself writing, as verbally was always quite difficult. (you can blame the dyspraxia for that)  Hehehehe....  But when I first started to watch porn - and use it to actually properly wank and not just laugh mindlessly at it, the whole thing was such a taboo thing at the time, that I had to constantly hide it. The shame would consume me at times, even though I knew deep, deep down - that there was possibly nothing to be ashamed about! I still felt like an alien, a freak for following the throbbing of my tiny clit. Th

Dv8 - - the blondie and the bean.

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Wasn't expecting a fantasy like that to pop into my head. Had a really awesome night at Dv8 and for a couple of hours afterwards and it went along the lines of  something like this... _____________________________________________ As I'm totally writing this from my memory, I'm bais in the sense it's completely from my own perspective. Although I do enjoy to perve around at everyone. This account of events consist entirely of pockets of time which I really enjoyed and are awesome moments which I can fully remember later on and usually in an impressive HD manner. {The only time you should ever go into the past, is to enjoy and perve other past experiences. Hehe} If I'm honest the majority of the night was pretty damn awesome so this might be a long account of events. __________________________________________ Me and Paul walked into the club feeling like the absolute sex gods as we are….. (well in our minds anyway hehe)  Basically this girl turned me down i

Women's rights are human rights-

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  The sad thing about it, is it’s eventually going to effect gay marriage, access to contraceptives and even interactional marriage. It really does like we've been somehow teleported back to the 1950's the space of a couple of days. I honestly am struggling to even try and comprehend why now, why after everything with covid and the war with Russia. (Which of course is only really getting started-let’s be honest here.) And I could have sworn it was only in the news a month ago that good old Biden was going to make the morning after pill available? Ah that whole delusional crumb of hope hey.  I think that maybe Covid was just a way they could pull the wool over peoples eyes. Did that how situation just merely show the true power of the 'state?'. 'NO?!'                           I think it was actually the complete opposite, it was done to fool people into believing that the state (the government) actually wants to protect them, to look after them. In way it

Monkey intelligence - cognitive dissonance

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 I don't know who needs to know this but I'm going to say it anyway... You can be the most intelligent person on this planet, but if you don't have any emotional intelligence to go along it, then that intelligence is wasted. What good is it going to do if your trying to put forward an argument, one that's based upon true knowledge and logic, but if you get triggered while doing so, your effectively now operating from your monkey brain, and you cannot no longer learn in that state. Your psychological processes, your schemas are no longer clear. You're no longer grounded, your angry and have jumped on the defence, your technically temporarily stuck within within the same part of your brain that was fully disconnected from the rest throughout your entire  childhood... Like that of a monkeys.. This is neurobiology correct. But now you’re replying within the argument - not to respond to what the other person is saying, but you’re defending what your original point was. C