Freedom of speech online? Cognitive dissonance prevents it.

There is honestly no freedom of speech ever online and living in a world where most people are constantly in a haze of cognitive dissonance - it's really hard to ever have a geniene deep conversation without them triggering and looking at you like you should be detained by the mental health act. It's honestly draining my very energy, I just want to be able to express my views and waccy opinions without the need to try and filter it. But it's always been like this - even when I was younger, there were often times where the moment (and the people within it) would have a negative response due to what I had done, or what I had said....

The massive 'why are we all here and what is life' would sadly be met with statements of denial or that I shouldn't be asking it, that 'it is what it is, and please stop saying it because its weird'. It seems my whole life, my family would observe me as the odd one out.. But I quickly realised that while people would get triggered by particular questions or subjects that I was not, I would too become scared when others spoke about stuff that made me feel scared - mainly ghosts! (that was the only thing that ever made me feel stupidly uncomfortable with)

Even to this day - I still cannot understand how people can watch ghost hunters for hours on end before going asleep and just turn it off and go asleep! (like absolute nutters if you ask me!) but again that's my own cognitive dissonance triggering.

Our main tic toc account got permanently banned at 21 thousand followers, for really no reason what so ever - than apart from the very simple fact that those who were reporting us were triggered by what we were discussing in our content. How can sex - the most natural thing known to man kind after cuddling and sarcastism (haha - joking :) cause people to become that upset. We litterely need it to carry on our very existence. It's almost that mind boggling for me that it can be such a sore subject for many.. (no pun intended :p) but although I slightly mourned the loss of the UK swinging lifestyle account, I quickly got over it and switched to our back up account which is backupbiproperswingers... But earlier today - that too got permanently banned and although I appealed it and got it back, it won't be long before it happens again - and again... Again we didn't even have a video taken down before it occurred, so I can't even logically explain why it even happened in the first place! There's must be loads on there who have it in for us, because they are ninja Karen's who don't comment or anything so I can't block them, and just keep reporting us because their cognitive dissonance is preventing them from being able to take anything we say on bored, their logic is broken - like the temporary connection within their brains which is happening because they are blinded by their own triggers. 

The simple psychology behind it is almost laughable. Society has made sure that the majority of people see sex as something that should be private and sacred.. And to a degree it needs to be sacred but without opening up and discussing it - how else are we going to learn more about sex and the true power it can have over our mental wellbeing and relationships (our interpersonal world - so our relationships with our self's. And our relationships with other people's) because although we have learnt so much in the past 3 decades, I know deep, deep down in my cervix that we've only just scrapped the surface in regards to our bodies and potential in which it has when it comes down to sexual expression.