The cam girl therapist introducing.... .






It has been way too long since I've wrote anything on this blog. But now that my degree is well and truly back on track (I've passed the 1st two TMA's..) And as my most recent piece - which is yet to be marked.. Was a presentation on the criminalisation and pathologisation of the LGBTQ + community.. I'm going to hope that I pass that - because as being someone who is part of the Bdsm and Kink community.. I'm going to only hope that I know enough on that subject.. Hehe.. Truth be told, there was actually so much that I didn't know while researching for it.. So there you go.. When you think you know a lot on something.. Its always fun to be in that moment.. When your sitting there.. And a thought pops up into your your consciousness.. 'well you thought you knew loads didnt you'..


Ironically I did a tiktok video that very evening regarding the criminal justice system and how it perceives cases of BDSM... And there's this fabulous gay psychologist who works for pink therapy.. And he makes this undeniably fantastic point of... ' you can consent up to the point of your own death in sports but you can't in kink - in the bedroom...and It was safe to say that it blew my mind a little. (no pun intended - although be prepared for some good old sexual puns coming 😂 oh wait - that was another pun)


So that's a little psychological awesomenes for you... Now back onto what I was meant to write about. Although let's be honest-it is all rather interconnected and Im aware you are all knowledgeable of by randomisity to the blog. So I refuse to appogise if I allow myself to drift off tangent, it happens so much in my day-to-day life and in my interpersonal world as well.. I think it's safe to say that as a general rule to existence itself. We are all pretty much winging it.  Lol :-) 


With thanks to a few recent camming sessions - I'm going to kick this blog off with a really unique start.. (and one I really hope to continue..) 


A 15 part series regarding the life and times of a very rare domantrix cam girl who seems to have evolved to a bisexual, gay, advise about the swinging scene, the internalised conflictions surrounding their different kinks and conflict resolution talking therapist.. 



Part one will be due to be finished and published by the 18th March 22 or 23 .. I’m not in any rush you sexy perverts ..




Please remember.. If you wish to interact with me - personally.. There's a contact form on our own website... Which you should know.. As this blog is attached to it..

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